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Apology - The Easy Way to Do It

Humans have been made with humongous egos. We have a lot of pride in our achievements, high or low. Our identity, whether we like it or not. Apologizing is one of the most unnatural things that we have to force ourselves to do to continue to survive in this society.

Personally speaking, I have still not quite got my act right on how to apologize but I do know what is the easiest way to do it, read this somewhere. The first thing is to set your ego aside, that is the hardest part of the whole exercise. Rest is downhill, piece of cake and gets easier with every next time.

Here are the most precise and concise words to use. You can translate as per your language of speech.

I am sorry. It was my fault. How can I make it right?


Yes that is right. Simple, straight to the point. A usual follow-up would start a conversation which will lead to eventual acceptance of the apology either said literally or known through how the conversation ended.

Learning to apologize is a very important skill as it helps build tolerance in society and make you realize that you are not the only one in this world. Improves your emotional intelligence and helps you grow and improve as a human being.

Soul's Destination

So thats how it falls out to be, doing quite ok, shouldn't complain. Things are pretty much in place as I would have liked it. However there is a sense of emptiness that prevails. A sense of purpose missing, a sense of belonging hollow. What is it, I ask myself, I think. Everything is so good and yet I feel this way. Strange are the ways. No matter how good we are, how settled so to say, we can never be content. For this soul was made for the heavens and that is where it will find its content, its satisfaction. That is where it originated from and that be its final destination.